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What Are We Practicing?

May 30, 2012

When Things Fall ApartThe painful thing is that when we buy into disapproval, we are practicing disapproval. When we buy into harshness, we are practicing harshness. The more we do it, the stronger these qualities become. How sad it is that we become so expert at causing harm to ourselves and others. The trick then is to practice gentleness and letting go. We can learn to meet whatever arises with curiosity and not make it such a big deal.

From “Selected Writings” in When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times, page 27.

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