Acknowledgments ix
Introduction xiii

1.Light and Shadow 1
2. Eastern Ideals 10
3. The Joys and Perils of Individuality 19
4. Mirrors and Reflections 32
5. Spirituality: Local and Express 41
6. Psychotherapy in the Context of Ongoing Buddhist Practice 52
7. Ego, Ego on the Wall: What Is Ego After All? 64
8. Anger: Abandon It or Express It? 91
9. A Middle Path on Anger 113
10. Embodied Love 127
11. Attachment East and West 151
12. Traditional Approaches to Nonattachment 163
13. Making Nonattachment Real 174
14. Presence and Absence in Life and Practice 184
15. Practice, Performance, and Finding Our Voices 199
Epilogue: Life as Pilgrimage 211

Notes 213
Index 243