Introduction 1
The emotional self
Emotions and body-mind medicine
The way of emotions
PART ONE: Embracing Your Emotional Self 9
1. How Do You Feel? 11
Emotions: what they are and where they come from
Emotions: what they're good for
Emotions and the mind
Emotions and relationships
Emotional Literacy
Negative emotions: releasing the old ones, dealing with current ones
Learning the language of feelings
Nine Families of Feelings
Meeting your emotional self
2. What Can I Do with My Feelings? 31
Discovering the art of emotional expression
But I can't draw a straight line
Emotions and the right brain
You ought to be in pictures
The expressive arts
The arts as process, not product
Sometimes art happens
Two brains, two hands: right, left, write
Facing the critic
Answering back
The three brains
Expressive arts: matching the medium to the mood
Materials
3. Feelings in Your Body 52
Emotions as energy
How emotions get stored in your body
Reclaiming our emotions
Feeling the body
What the drawing means
The body as storyteller
PART TWO: Expressing Your Feelings 67
The ABCs of feelings: match the medium to the mood
Directory of emotions: an alphabetical reference guide to emotions
4. The Color of Emotions: From Red with Rage to Feeling Blue 75
The ABCs of drawing: color, line, shape and texture
Drawing out your feelings
Emotions at the boiling point: anger and rage
The image of feelings
The art of collage
Feeling scattered
When nothing makes sense: chaos, confusion, and ambivalence
Exploring pastels
Painting your feelings
Scared stiff: fear
Feeling down: depression, sadness, and grief
Revisiting earlier activities
Helplessness and vulnerability
At home with yourself: happiness, love, and playfulness
Expressive arts as meditation: peace, contentment, and serenity
Embracing happiness: joy, enthusiasm, and creativity
Try a little tenderness: love
5. Sculpted Feelings: Mad, Sad, and Glad 109
Preparing the clay, preparing yourself
Comments about the process
The hot emotions: anger, sexuality, and passion
Getting down to earth
Sexuality and sensuality
My body self
Feelings of loss: grief, sadness, and lonliness
Journaling: a handmand life
6. The Sound of Feelings: From Sadness to Joy 130
Emotions and sound
Sound as environment
Music as medicine
Journal entry
Music as therapy
Sounds around us
Drumming and the hot emotions
Emotions and vocal sound
Vocalizing our feelings
Sounding our depths: sadness, lonliness, and grief
Toning
Mantra and sound meditation: peace and contentment
A meditative atmosphere
Sounds from the heart: happiness, love, and playfulness
Music for exploring the sound of feelings
7. Emotions in Motion: Moving Your Mood, Dancing for Joy 153
Body language and emotions
The Dancer Within
Blocks to spontaneous dance
Moving your feelings out
The work of Gabrielle Roth and the five rhythms
Trance dancing: when the spirit moves you
The inward emotions: sadness, vulnerability, and fear
Nurturing the self: love and self-care
Taking a stand: protectiveness and assertiveness
Outgoing feelings: anger, passion, and sexuality
Movement as spiritual practice: peace and serenity
Roots and wings: joy, playfulness, and creativity
Emotions as energy
PART THREE: Understanding Your Feelings 173
Insight through words
8. When Your Feelings Tell Their Story, Pay Attention 177
In the beginning was the Word
I found it at the movies
Writing from the still image
Writing from feelings
Writing as medicine
Listening to the guide within
9. Facing Ourselves: Mask Making and Inner Dialogues 192
Finding our many selves
Subpersonalities and emotions
Mask making and our many selves
The woman of darkness and light
Methods of mask making
Joy, enthusiasm, and playfulness
Exploring the selves through Voice Dialogue
10. Accepting Your Feelings: Letting Go of Judgement 210
Clearing the emotions by clearing the mind
A change of mind
A change of heart: nurturing yourself
As we believe, so we feel: dropping old baggage
Clearing old patterns
Changing your mind about feelings
Letting your feelings be your guide: changing your life creatively
Resources 237
Materials
Sources for art materials and supplies
Books, audio and video cassettes
Body charts: chapter three