Love between Equals

Love between Equals

Relationship as a Spiritual Path
By Polly Young-Eisendrath
 - Paperback

PREORDER: Expected to ship after 01/15/2019.

Shambhala Publications
Pages: 240
Size: 5.5 x 8.5
ISBN: 9781611804782
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A committed relationship, as most people see it today, is a relationship of equals who share values and goals, a kind of team united by love, a common purpose and philosophy, and dedication to each other’s growth on many levels, including spiritually. However, we have failed to recognize what a brand-new model this is in the history of the world. The old archetypes and myths and the reductive biological models do not provide adequate guidance for relationships based on “personal love.” We need new guidelines that are rooted in sound understanding of our modern psychology and dilemmas. Young-Eisendrath makes the stand that modern relationships, which demand equality and reciprocity, cannot resort to dominance, control, or trust-breaking. Valuing being “true to yourself” in a relationship means we must learn to continually renegotiate conflicts and needs with our partner, rather than necessarily bailing out at the first upset.

Utilizing wisdom gleaned from her many years of Buddhist practice, teaching, psychotherapy, and couples counseling, Young-Eisendrath shows how mindfulness is the key. Her insights and clinical examples are supported by practical application through the provision of mindfulness-based practices, exercises, and dialogue formats she has effectively used in couples counseling. You may not always like the hard truth in what you read, or you might even disagree at times, but Young-Eisendrath is willing to not only dismantle our idealized projections about love but also offer a way forward to bring our intimate relationships on the spiritual path.

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