Aging Guides

Knowing How to Be Satisfied

Knowing How to Be Satisfied

Knowing How to Be Satisfied An excerpt from Alive Until You’re Dead by Susan Moon. What is given to us is the chance to become human beings together. Even the challenges and the difficulties are given to us. We didn’t ask for these challenges, but they are given, and what is given is a gift. [...]
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Preparing to Care

Preparing to Care

“I don’t think I can do this!” Excerpt from Present Through the End “I don’t think I can do this!” Perhaps this was the first thought that went through your mind when you heard the sad news and you are about to visit for the first time. That’s okay. Most of the time, by simply [...]
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Present through the End | Discussion Guide

Present through the End | Discussion Guide

Guiding Questions Introduction Inspired by decades of experience caring for the dying and years teaching contemplative care around the world, Kirsten DeLeo shares down-to-earth advice and offers short, simple, on-the-spot tools to help you handle your emotions, deal with difficult relationships, talk about spiritual matters, listen fully, and practice self-care. Present Through the End shows [...]
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Flexible Mind, Caring Mind

Flexible Mind, Caring Mind

Caring as a Practice of Mindfulness An excerpt from Contemplative Caregiving “In the beginner’s mind there are many possibilities, but in the expert’s there are few.” This pithy teaching from Shunryu Suzuki’s Zen Mind, Beginner’s Mind offers a powerful reminder of the need for flexibility and receptivity in compassionate care.1 Many hospice caregivers will tell [...]
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