|The following article is from the Summer, 2003 issue of the Snow Lion Newsletter and is for historical reference only. You can see this in context of the original newsletter here.|
by BHIKSHUNI THUBTEN CHODRON
Imagine Chinese Buddhists going to the airport to pick up Catholic nuns, looking for figures swathed in long black habits and starched veils, and being puzzled when women in skirts appeared instead. Imagine Catholic nuns at dinner at a Chinese temple gingerly picking at the unfamiliar, strange-looking food before them. This was the first evening of the Catholic-Buddhist nuns' conference organized by the Catholic organization, Monastic Interreligious Dialogue, and sponsored by the Hsi Lai Temple in California, May 23-26, 2003. Despite (or maybe because of) our humorous beginning, we soon became spiritual sisters, with remarkable trust and exchange between us.
The thirty participants were split equally between Catholic and Buddhist, with a Hindu nun and an Orthodox nun as well. We marveled at and learned from our diversity: among the Catholics were nuns from the Order of St. Benedict and sisters from several different orders that focused on active service to society. Among the Buddhists were nuns from the Korean, Chinese, Theravadin, and Tibetan traditions, and priests following Japanese Zen.
It was just us nuns—no reporters, no observers, no formal agenda. We wanted to be able to discuss freely, without presenting papers or making statements. Of course the press arid men were interested. "What in the world do a group of religious women talk about behind closed doors?" they wondered.
Our sessions began with Buddhist chants and Christian inspirational songs in which all joined. One theme was balance: How do we balance our inward spiritual life of prayer with our active outer life of social service? How do we balance tradition and customs with being pioneers who adapt to ever-changing societies?
In an elevator one day, Ven. Yifa, renowned for her feistiness, looked Sr. Meg in the eye and said, "Meg, you're so intelligent. Do you really believe in God?"
A second theme focused on community, and a third was spiritual cultivation: What does cultivation mean in our respective traditions? How do we remain engaged when we traverse times of spiritual impasse? How do spiritual cultivation and emotional maturity relate to each other? How does a teacher discern what is necessary for a disciple at any particular time?
I was touched by the genuine interest the Catholic sisters had in how we Buddhist nuns trained and meditated. I was also moved by the integrity and confidence of the Catholic nuns, many of whom had been ordained for four or five decades.
The depth of our dialogue and trust was illustrated the last evening when Sr. Meg Funk, the main Catholic organizer, related an incident with Ven. Yifa, the main Buddhist organizer. In an elevator one day, Ven. Yifa, renowned for her feistiness, looked Sr. Meg in the eye and said, "Meg, you're so intelligent. Do you really believe in God?" When the group heard this, we all burst out laughing, but the following day a few of us took up the question. Our discussion was interrupted by the arrival of the van to the airport, leaving us eager to meet again with our spiritual siblings.
Thubten Chodron is the author of several books, including Working with Anger, Buddhism for Beginners, and What Color is Your Mind?